Comments on: Oh to miss someone this much… http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/ Ramblings Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:21:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Anna http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2285 Anna Mon, 15 Mar 2010 09:45:36 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2285 =( *hugs* =( *hugs*

]]> By: Kiyu http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2283 Kiyu Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:45:18 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2283 You know, I can't agree more. I've been in both 'positions' in a relationship, the one where I'm the one breaking the guy's heart, and now the one who's having her heart broken. And now, I can honestly say that I prefer this kind… The heartache, the pain, the sorrow, the prospect of possibly going out with searing pieces instead of a whole heart – it may be a tough price to pay but it's worth it all to experience having… loved him. Because I never have loved anyone as a partner before. In my world, the word "love" is not to be taken lightly. And I… I just happen to realize halfway through that I… <i>loved</i> him. I didn't know it was possible, that I could love someone when I had such little experience, that I could love anyone this soon, and at such a young age too… It's just… to love someone, it's just such a big thing in my world. And because of that, I was in denial for so long. For so long, Helene… But I had to admit it in the end, and tell him too, and it was such a relief when I did. He is the first man I ever loved, and it breaks my heart that I didn't let myself believe it sooner. It's just incredible this feeling, to <i>love</i> him. And I've grown immensely from this too, <i>I</i> know it, <i>he</i> knows it. I've changed so much in so many ways… So yes, I heartily agree with you. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all :) You know, I can’t agree more.

I’ve been in both ‘positions’ in a relationship, the one where I’m the one breaking the guy’s heart, and now the one who’s having her heart broken. And now, I can honestly say that I prefer this kind… The heartache, the pain, the sorrow, the prospect of possibly going out with searing pieces instead of a whole heart – it may be a tough price to pay but it’s worth it all to experience having… loved him.

Because I never have loved anyone as a partner before. In my world, the word “love” is not to be taken lightly. And I… I just happen to realize halfway through that I… loved him. I didn’t know it was possible, that I could love someone when I had such little experience, that I could love anyone this soon, and at such a young age too… It’s just… to love someone, it’s just such a big thing in my world. And because of that, I was in denial for so long. For so long, Helene… But I had to admit it in the end, and tell him too, and it was such a relief when I did.

He is the first man I ever loved, and it breaks my heart that I didn’t let myself believe it sooner. It’s just incredible this feeling, to love him. And I’ve grown immensely from this too, I know it, he knows it. I’ve changed so much in so many ways…

So yes, I heartily agree with you. It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all :)

]]> By: Kiyu http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2282 Kiyu Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:22:27 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2282 Awh thank you so much (and I'm happy that you comment!). I've fallen ill now so adventures aren't exactly top priority atm haha. I'm well preoccupied though, with battling off this illness and revising for my exams! xD But yeh, going to see Lion King the musical in easter so that's gonna be good :) Awh thank you so much (and I’m happy that you comment!). I’ve fallen ill now so adventures aren’t exactly top priority atm haha. I’m well preoccupied though, with battling off this illness and revising for my exams! xD But yeh, going to see Lion King the musical in easter so that’s gonna be good :)

]]> By: Helene http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2280 Helene Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:00:21 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2280 They say it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Personally I've found this to be true more often than not. Be it family members, friends or in your case, a lover. Experiences like these, while painful, might help you grow as a person. That it hurts only means that it was true, and that what you had is something to be greatful for. I hope you'll feel better soon! <3 *hugs* They say it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Personally I’ve found this to be true more often than not. Be it family members, friends or in your case, a lover. Experiences like these, while painful, might help you grow as a person. That it hurts only means that it was true, and that what you had is something to be greatful for.

I hope you’ll feel better soon! <3 *hugs*

]]> By: casker http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2276 casker Thu, 11 Mar 2010 07:00:34 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2276 I hope you don't mind that I start commenting now that I mustered up the courage not to be a lurker! :) Aww Kiyu, if I knew you in real life, I would take you for a fast-paced girl's night out :D I know it's hard to do anything when you are weighted by a broken heart, but one of the best remedies is flushing out the sadness by being preoccupied! Eat an exotic dish you've never tried before, then go on a fast bike ride across the city, etc... heal soon, Kiyu! I hope you don’t mind that I start commenting now that I mustered up the courage not to be a lurker! :)

Aww Kiyu, if I knew you in real life, I would take you for a fast-paced girl’s night out :D I know it’s hard to do anything when you are weighted by a broken heart, but one of the best remedies is flushing out the sadness by being preoccupied! Eat an exotic dish you’ve never tried before, then go on a fast bike ride across the city, etc… heal soon, Kiyu!

]]> By: morghus http://kiyu-shii.net/p/oh-to-miss-someone-this-much%e2%80%a6/comment-page-1/#comment-2271 morghus Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:07:10 +0000 http://kiyu-shii.net/?p=5117#comment-2271 *hugs* *hugs*

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